Life doesn’t come with a manual….it comes with continuous learning curves, lifelong  ‘on tap’ experiences…good and bad. As the saying goes “the only constant is change”

I’ve recently gone about one of these changes in my life after being in the hospitality industry for six years. Leaping from my comfort zone into the unknown yet again and starting over is indeed daunting especially as I’m no longer a ‘spring chicken’.

I’ve enjoyed my six years in Uganda, they’ve certainly provided me with enriching moments. The people I have met along the way in the form of guests and business acquaintances will never be forgotten but my staff and friends will be embedded in my heart always. I have come to learn that having more is not always as expected but having less gives you so much more….I hope this makes sense? Never before have I met people who are so grateful for so very little, always welcome you with the most heartwarming smiles and are willing to please you no matter what challenges they have to face on a daily basis. I have also learnt that people are not always as they seem but I guess I was too naïve to realize that this is a given in the human race sadly and one of my many learning curves for sure!

My new adventure takes me from the tropical surrounds of East Africa to the sands of Namibia where I will be joining a Wellness company specializing in Primary Health Care….very different to hospitality!! I have been to this country once and immediately fell in love with it….despite the dry, desert climate there is a unique beauty in the vastness and difficult to put into words really. The majestic, golden sand dunes are a sight to behold and one can hardly believe they are actually created from the sands washed down the rivers in the Drakensberg Mountain regions of Kwazulu Natal, South Africa…so I should feel very much ‘at home’ 😉 Even the desert barrenness takes one’s breath away with its never-ending captivating landscape.

This different occupation comes with a new challenge, as I now have to complete a series of courses in order to fulfil certain requirements, to become familiar and adequately equipped for my new working environment …in the medical field…..the best I can currently manage is apply a band aid!!!!

I look forward to all and will relish the challenge – in my opinion it doesn’t matter how old you are…if you want change…only you can make it happen….if you want something..…only you can get itand lastly……you’re never too old to learn…anything!




Where to…..

There comes a time in one’s life when decisions have to be made and notice taken of how and where the current flows…..

How do you decide when the time is right to lift anchor and cast off when you know not the future of the wind….

Fire & Flame

There is no better feeling than sitting around a really good fire in the evening with a couple of great friends under a canopy of stars….and in my case…..African skies. The warm glow and friendly chatter all round is so satisfying and beats many things for me.  Flames mesmerise and draw all attention during lapses in conversation taking our minds elsewhere for just a few moments….until someone jumps up to throw on another log scattering sparks, igniting chatter again…..

Not sure about you but this kind of ambience is priceless really.

The Wheels of Fortune

It’s a case of ‘ride to work’ and ‘work to ride’!

To some it may not be a fortune but to others it is exactly that…..adapting what you have to generate income. I see a lot of this here in Uganda and it never ceases to amaze me, I love the attitude of this nation!

Our ‘knife sharpener’ is just one example of all this and yes we could just buy one (not him!) from the local supermarket but why? Here at Gately Inn Entebbe we want to support the ‘local talent’ because we appreciate the initiative and the lifestyle within this beautiful country!

Home Ground

Crisp, misty mornings with the scent of freshly cut timber hanging in the air fills the soul and clears the mind ~ it’s a place I call home and ground I yearn to be back on but one day……and when the time is right.

Karkloof, Kwazulu Natal Midlands, South Africa (taken whilst on 3 weeks leave back home)



Cruising, Boozing & a Coin Flipping on the Nile!


Three years ago I had the pleasure of meeting two amazing Canadian women whilst on their visit to Uganda…. today they are two of my closest and most dearest friends.

In September 2015 I welcomed Jules and Kim to Gately Inn Entebbe…with their big smiles exuding warmth and love we instantly hit it off. Jules had contacted me previously via my MD as they had met whilst she worked on a volunteer project with the Jane Goodall Institute here in Uganda. They had arranged to go on a short safari to Murchison Falls National Park and invited me along and the bush being my passion didn’t have to ask twice! Although there is lots to show and tell about this safari one of the highlights for me was an afternoon boat cruise on the mighty Nile Rive to the bottom of the Murchison Falls and one I will always fondly remember. Actually a day before the trip we started a ‘coin flipping’ ritual at the Source of the Nile in Jinja whereby we simultaneously flipped coins over our shoulders into the water…..of course this was to be repeated at Murchison Falls also.


When I saw our boat initially I must be honest and say I was a little worried at the size…it was quite a big river…. there were some huge elephants and really large crocs on the banks….I’d also heard some pretty scary stories about these chaps needless to say during the cruise after setting off we kept on looking back to see if the captain was still there!! Anyway fears dissipated and were replaced by excitement….it was an awesome afternoon….I couldn’t have asked for better, the company was just the best, the scenery stunning and the wildlife in abundance…..What amazed me most of all was Murchison Falls itself…the power of nature…….300 cubic meters of water per second thrusting its way between a gorge less than ten meters wide. We could not only hear it but could also feel it!


A cruise on the Nile in a National Park just wouldn’t be the same without tsetse flies and trust me to have worn the wrong colour clothing that particular day but after delving into the ‘first aid’ box I was quickly consoled and their bites went unnoticed after a while! I did however feel the relentless itch & pain later on that evening!



What I loved about this trip was being outdoors, on an adventure, amidst the most beautiful surroundings with the most awesome company ever. I’ll happily flip coins again with these two gals and so look forward to the next session…..wherever, whenever that may be possible…!


Me Time

How often do you get ‘me time’ or ‘time out’? I don’t that much but when I do I cherish it so. I almost become selfish as you really have to preserve that bubble’s very short lifespan. It’s great to get your head into a different space….for me preferably one with a view….I’m a ‘view’ person and become mesmerised by a beautiful one. My mind immediately changes  down a gear and allows me to go into philosophic mode on all topics and most especially me….and my life!

I go to great heights to do all this…most times…I sit and ponder to the yellow billed kite’s call as they glide the thermals whilst I gaze the distant horizon of Lake Victoria framed by wispy clouds…and what better company than a glass of fine white wine….

I’d love to hear your point of view… important is ‘me time’ to you and do you have a favourite ‘time out’ spot?


Two Spare Wheels & a Safari

The start to the day was an early one as we had a long trip ahead of us. I was excited because not only was I doing a familiarization trip up into Northern Uganda but two proper elderly English gentlemen were joining me…both in their eighties and absolutely delightful! I was looking forward to African sunsets, G&T’s and good company!

We set off from Jinja with our safari guide Sunday behind the wheel…I sat in the back with John (82) and Neville (89) sat in the front as was more comfortable for his back. A little way along the road the steering started to vibrate as we hit a certain speed which was a little worrying as we still had a very long way to go. John suggested we go into Kampala (the opposite direction) to have the wheel balancing checked at a reputable dealer…..this was all supposed to have been sorted during the vehicles most recent service. Now travelling through Kampala is like trying to steer a treadmill through a maze at the best of times but eventually we got to the dealer workshop only to find we also had a puncture…anyway we got all fixed, balanced, aligned, had some breakfast and set off merrily…again through Kampala…….


We no sooner got through and about 40 km out the city and the vibration started again…….we simply had no option so turned back but this time headed directly to the only Land Rover dealership in town…treadmill…maze of people, vehicles, motorbikes…… get the picture don’t you……anyway we vibrated our way to the ‘open air workshop’…up the ramp…exercised a few negotiating skills and got the problem seen to by the capable team on standby, the problem…worn out ‘bushes’ on the steering rack. Anyway another 2 hours before they were happy with all and we finally departed Kampala …smoothly…at 5pm…yes we were really on schedule…Ugandan schedule! It was a long, harrowing drive during the night dodging vehicles and trucks without lights…speeding buses that thought they owned the road however eventually we arrived at Churchill’s Hotel located in a town called Gulu at around midnight. A warm shower, something small to eat and cup of tea saw me straight to bed whilst John and Neville did the same after a beer.

The plan was to depart early so we could make the most of our day but our wheels had other ideas…..a flat tire and this was no.2. Anyway Sunday changed tires and all was well, luckily John is always prepared and had hooked up two spares for this trip. Traveling up North was a new experience for me as it was advised against before due to bad road conditions and tribal unrest in the area…this was also Joseph Cony’s district and belonged to the Acholi tribe. The landscape here differed to the rest of Uganda, it was dry, dusty, had sparse shrub vegetation and the climate very hot.  I love driving through new areas as there is so much to see and I did. The layout of the villages differed to down South, here women rode bicycles which I hadn’t seen before and even the hut designs were different and built also for the goats and other animals.


The road was long and population decreased as we continued our journey towards the mountains that formed the border between Uganda and South Sudan. We were now entering the territory or the Karamajong tribe previously known as the ‘cattle raiders’. The landscape transformed from rocky outcrops and acacia trees to hills and huge boulders and just as we reached the bottom of a very muddy steep hill Sunday our driver pulled over…..’we have a problem’ he said….puncture no. 3! Out we got…John opened his toolbox took out the necessary and between him and Sunday they changed the wheel whilst Neville and I did a little sightseeing and took some photos. We hit the road again and now looked forward to a ice cold Club beer…..thirsty work all this tire changing !!


Eventually we arrived at our destination…Kidepo National Park and wow…it  just took my breath away…it really was an ‘Out of Africa’ scene and stunningly beautiful…rolling savannah, rocky outcrops and distant mountains outlining the horizon. We checked into our safari tents and I fell in love with the location, the view and my tent. I chose the one furthest from the restaurant and let John and Neville have those closer as it was quite a climb. My bathroom even had a view…actually I could happily of brushed my teeth all day but didn’t quite have enough toothpaste! I unpacked and headed up to the restaurant/lounge area…the gentlemen had beaten me to it and were already sipping on a cold beer! Sunday returned after getting the tires fixed and joined us…the problem being old patches all round that kept on coming off – we really needed to buy new inner tubes but none out here in the bush! We had a lovely evening accompanied by a stunning African sunset after a long day. It was absolute bliss going to bed to the chorus of night sounds of the open bush with the distant calls of lion and hyena, a reminder that there were no fences in these National Parks of Uganda!


Each morning I woke to the early birds calling and in the dark made my way up to the restaurant for a quick breakfast & coffee before setting off on our safari. Each morning we were greeted by the rising sun as we rounded the one corner and each morning was more beautiful than the last…not to mention the ‘pre safari puncture’ The golden whispering savannah grass brushing up against buffalo and antelope silhouettes and as the sun rose higher the grey bulk of the matriarchal female leading her family of elephants in the distance. Driving along the bush roads it’s very easy to miss the smaller or should I say scalier creatures when scanning the distance for the elusive cat family, which unfortunately we did not get to see on this trip. We did however see possibly one of the longest and largest pythons I have ever seen slithering down an old anthill…and then another about 500 meters away…just amazing! We had the privilege of enjoying an amazing 360 degree view from a point in the middle of the park….and there was also a loo….with a view…however always a good idea to make sure it’s ‘unoccupied’!! Of course a safari just wouldn’t be complete without another puncture, this time in the park on the last afternoon…..I definitely was on lion watch whilst the men did what they had been doing best…changing tires of course! That night we were the only three in camp and it was quite dark (lanterns used as whole camp solar powered)…I had my torch as I made my way back to my tent hearing the eerie hyena calls in the valley I was a little nervous…suddenly there was a loud rustle in the tall grass and as I shone my torch in the direction could see two eyes staring at me…well I actually cannot describe how I felt at that particular moment especially on this platform and I’m not sure who got the biggest fright…me or the jackal…I shouted a quick lecture at him before literally leaving skid marks on the gravel path and I think I nearly ripped the zip right off trying to get into my tent !!  I did have a good giggle after though between heartbeats and called myself a woos 🙂


We reluctantly set off back to Jinja in the morning and I was in a quiet yet somewhat satisfied state of mind. This trip had been amazing….not only had I been in ‘authentic Africa’ but I had the pleasure of two very pleasant gentlemen. I loved every moment from the sunrise punctures to the G&T marathons at sunset….believe me I was no match against John & Neville’s consumption capacity! I loved listening to their stories of when they were younger and worked in Africa….to their giggles whilst reminiscing the mischief they got up to. To me the moments on this safari…the wide open plains of Africa….the sunsets and sunrises…..the wildlife…the little things…..the two 80 yr old hunks and even the 7 punctures……priceless!

Moral of my story – don’t let life’s punctures get you down 😉




This is probably one of my favorite photographs – three individuals on a journey across the waters, each with a different facial expression. Of course the big, gorgeous smile in the middle is just so infectious and I can’t help but smile back.

I have to wonder what the other two expressions are about…..

The older sibling at the front seems to not be sure about something but certainly thinking on it or trying to make sense of the situation, hesitant but on the brink of showing to emotion.

The adult at the back and could be the father or perhaps the boatman and with a stern, unsmiling face, focused on keeping the boat moving forward, determined not to be sidetracked…perhaps has responsibility weighing heavily on his shoulders or perhaps his mind is elsewhere?

Which expression do you wear generally?

No matter the circumstances surrounding you surely your attitude can change your expression? Wouldn’t you like to wear the same expression as the little chap in the middle……you can!